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Can anyone help me with something?
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    acx95 is offline New Member
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    Default Can anyone help me with something?

    Hello, long time reader first time poster. I'm currently talking to a woman & things are getting intense. The problem is I get nervous with women I like (this doesn't happen with escorts) & I need liquor. The problem with liquor is that I can't get it up. I was considering taking viagra with the alcohol but I heard that doesn't work. What should I take to get my nerves down but still, get it up?

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    iMako is offline New Member
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    i pretend the woman im hitting on is a lesbian, OR, i just pretend i have zero chance of getting with them, and it makes me much more comfortable. its not your nerves, its your mind messing with you. alcohol is a turn off for anyone who isnt also drinking at the time, the same way a smoker tastes/smells to a non smoker(kiss or otherwise). i dont know of any drugs you can take to make you moire confident, except for all of them. dont go that route.

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    you should practice being with her most of the time..spend more time with her and sooner you'll get used to it, and having her by your side will not make you nervous again.

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    I do not know what to suggest you. But in this case probably that would be better to visit the doctor and ask for some recommendation. That would be better.

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    Before taking any medicine for be what appears to be a stress or anxiety issue, ALWAYS talk to a physician.

    In the alternative try an intimate, relaxed atmosphere, scented candles, soft warm light, music...then start with the idea of just cuddling, talking, and relaxing together. You might be quite surprised at what happens when there's no "pressure to perform." And quiet as it's kept, slow sensual cuddling, kissing and holding one another is just as important as "the act" itself!

    Good luck...for both of you.

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    If the case is still relevant I would like you suggest to start treating her like a friend. Then the barriers will dissapeared. Additionally there is one substance that will make relaxed and still in form ;p smoke little bit weed, even with her, then you wont be stressed anymore

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    Don't take any medications. Why would you go that road? And alcohol? You know what can happen when you start heading down that road, right? Your brain will create more and more stressful situations for you to give you a reason to drink. Bad idea. It's just your mind. Fight with bad thoughts, use positive thoughts and you will be fine.

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